- Title:
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The Mother Wound
- Written by:
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Amani Haydar
- Read by:
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Amani Haydar
- Format:
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Unabridged CD Audio Book
- Number of CDs:
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9
- Duration:
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10 hours 10 minutes
- Published:
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June 29 2021
- Available Date:
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June 29 2021
- Age Category:
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Adult
- ISBN:
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9781867546306
- Genres:
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Non-fiction; Australian; Biography; Memoirs
- Publisher:
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Bolinda/Macmillan Australia
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Format
Price
Bolinda price
Australian author
Winner Australian Book Industry Award 2022
Shortlisted New South Wales Premier's Literary Awards 2022
Shortlisted ABIA / Biography Book of the Year 2022
The Mother Wound tells a personal story of maternal loss, trauma, fear and sadness caused by male violence.
'I am from a family of strong women.'
Amani Haydar suffered the unimaginable when she lost her mother in a brutal act of domestic violence perpetrated by her father. Five months pregnant at the time, her own perception of how she wanted to mother (and how she had been mothered) was shaped by this devastating murder.
After her mother's death, Amani began reassessing everything she knew of her parents' relationship. They had been unhappy for so long – should she have known that it would end like this? A lawyer by profession, she also saw the holes in the justice system for addressing and combating emotional abuse and coercive control. Amani also had to reckon with the weight of familial and cultural context. Her parents were brought together in an arranged marriage, her mother thirteen years her father's junior. Her grandmother was brutally killed in the 2006 war in Lebanon, adding complex layers of intergenerational trauma.
Amani has drawn from this a story of female resilience and the role of motherhood in the home and in the world. In The Mother Wound, she uses her own strength to help other survivors find their voices.
'Shattering, unforgettable, beautifully told.'
Randa Abdel-Fattah, award-winning author of When Michael Met Mina
'A magnificent and devastating work of art. There is a raging anger here, and a deep sorrow, but at the core Haydar gives us truths about love.'
Bri Lee, author of The Work
'Gripping, transcendent, tender and, at times, infuriating. With a daughter's heart and a lawyer's mind, Amani Haydar maps the territory that connects the wars we fight abroad to the wars we endure in our homes.'
Jess Hill